See that little girl there? She’ll be 3 next month.  Her mother didn’t want to spend all of xmas day with her.  She had other prorities.  Dad did not.  Dad’s priority was to spend time with family, and of this also he was bereft.  So, my ONLY child had all of dad’s attention.  As it should be.  Merry Xmas Layla.  I love you.  One day I’ll get to explain this all to you.